Chastity

Artebu’s optional Chastity facet is a shared space for couples who play with keys, cages, protocols, and patience. Whether you’re exploring denial for the first time or you’ve got a well-worn routine, this facet helps you track lockups, coordinate unlocks, log teases and ruined orgasms, and celebrate those earned, full releases—without losing the thread (or the key).

What is chastity play?

Chastity is consensual control of orgasm and access. Typically there’s a wearer (the one locked) and a keyholder (the one in charge). Many folks use a physical device; some practice “soft” or time-based denial without hardware. Common patterns include:

Lockups that last hours, days, or longer
Temporary unlocks for hygiene, health, or play—followed by re-lock
Tease & denial sessions, edging, and occasionally ruined orgasms
Releases that are scheduled, earned, or delightfully unexpected

Artebu doesn’t tell you how to play—it simply gives you both clear, shared tools to play the way you like, confidently and safely.

1) Lockup tracking that’s precise (and a little cruel)

Start a lockup with one tap and see the exact elapsed time down to the minute. Add an intended end date—or leave it… open-ended. Every lock shows up in your history, so you can review streaks, average durations, toughest weeks, and milestones. You can also log teases, edges, ruins, and releases inside a lockup, so the story of that wait is all in one place.

Great for: building anticipation, accountability, and smug little “you’re almost there” messages.

2) Chastity-specific agreements (clear rules, sexy clarity)

Drop in custom agreements just for chastity:

Maximum lock duration before a hygiene check
How long temporary unlocks should last
Minimum re-lock window after hygiene
How often teases happen; what “ruin” versus “release” means for you
Health/safety red lines and safewords

Everything is editable, co-approved, and visible inside your shared Dynamic, so you both know the rules you’re playing by.

3) Push notifications that keep power… powerful

When the wearer starts a lockup, requests an unlock, or logs an unlock, the keyholder gets a gentle push notification. Approvals and re-locks can be confirmed in-app, so there’s no ambiguity about what’s happening—just that delicious sense of control (and being controlled).

4) Orders + Chastity = delicious discipline

Combine chastity with Orders to orchestrate the wait:

“Lock up now. Send me a photo of the lock code.”
“Quick hygiene unlock. You have 10 minutes. Relock and confirm.”
“Edge three times. No finish. Tell me how it feels.”
“If you complete your tasks this week, I’ll consider a release.”

Orders can hide future steps until the previous ones are complete, keeping the wearer guessing and the keyholder grinning.

Why couples love it

Shared truth: No more “when did we start?” or “did you relock?”—it’s all logged.
Less admin, more play: Templates, timers, and one-tap events reduce friction.
Built for consent: Agreements live next to the fun, so limits and care never get lost.
Fits any style: Hardware or not, strict or soft—make the facet match your flavor.

Why new keyholders love Artebu

Clarity, not guesswork: Lockup tracking shows exactly when things started, what’s allowed, and what’s next—so a first-time keyholder never has to improvise the rules mid-scene.
Consent-first guardrails: Chastity-specific agreements put boundaries in plain sight (max lock time, hygiene windows, what counts as a “ruin,” how often teases happen). Both of you approve them, so “in charge” never means “in the dark.”
Tap-to-lead moments: Use Orders to run simple, satisfying beats—“Lock now,” “10-minute hygiene unlock, then relock,” “Edge twice, no finish.” Future steps can stay hidden, so even beginners feel artfully in control.
Nudges that do the talking: Push notifications handle the admin (“relocked,” “unlock requested”) so the keyholder can focus on tone, praise, or that wicked little delay.
Inspiration on demand: Pair the Chastity facet with Ideas to borrow tried-and-true teases and mini-rituals. Remix them to fit your vibe, no expert resume required.

A simple first week flow

Set your agreements together (short lock, hygiene plan, what “ruin” means for you).
Start the lockup with one tap; let the timer do the anticipation.
Send two or three Orders across the week—short, clear, and fun.
Use notifications to approve any hygiene unlocks and confirm re-locks.
Choose the finish: log a ruined orgasm or schedule a full release (and celebrate that on the timeline).

Built-in confidence

Shared history means no “did I do it right?”—you’ll see the outcomes together.
Agreements make it easy to say yes, not now, or not like that—without breaking the mood.
Short, repeatable rituals help a new keyholder find their voice, then turn it up.

Hand them the keys—with training wheels that still feel like power. Artebu gives first-time keyholders the structure to play boldly and the freedom to make it yours.

Ready to lock it in?

Add the Chastity facet to your Dynamic, set your agreements, and start your first lockup. Hand over the key (literally or figuratively), and let Artebu keep the timeline—and the tension—perfectly tight.

New to keyholding? Artebu makes the ask (and the “yes”) easy

It’s common for the wearer to bring the fantasy—and for a loving partner to think, “I’m curious, but where do I start?” The Chastity facet turns that curiosity into confidence with clear rails, gentle prompts, and just enough structure to feel powerful without pressure.

Chastity on Artebu