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Ideas on Artebu

Community-made tips that your partner “just happens” to see

Ideas are Artebu’s bite-size inspirations—anonymous, guides you can actually use. From scene starters and service tasks to dirty-talk cues, bondage positions, and clever ways to play with toys, Ideas range from quick tips you can try tonight to full-blown “recipes” for unforgettable nights. Explore what the community is enjoying, save the ones that sizzle, and let the app quietly personalize what you and your partner see next.

Why Ideas?

Because talking about sex can be… a lot. Even with someone you adore, surfacing a new kink or a specific fantasy can feel awkward, high-pressure, or just hard to phrase. Ideas make it effortless to:

  • Discover what’s possible without doom-scrolling or guesswork.
  • Signal interest without delivering a speech.
  • Collaborate with shared inspiration that’s already consent-forward.
  • Evolve your play together as your tastes change over time.

The Like That Changes Everything (Quietly)

Here’s the magic: likes are private—no one sees “who” liked “what.” But those private likes do train your recommendations and also tune your partner’s feed. The result?

  • You can like something a little spicy (or a lot) without announcing it.
  • Your partner starts seeing more suggestions in that direction—without you having to bring it up first.
  • When it’s time to brainstorm or daydream together, you’re both browsing a feed that’s already bending toward your shared heat.

Perfect for the ideas you’re curious about but hesitant to say out loud.

Share When You Want the Hint to Land

Sometimes subtlety is cute. Sometimes you want a neon sign. With Ideas, you can share a prompt directly with your partner:

  • It still refines both of your recommendations.
  • It gives them a tidy, tap-to-open concept to react to—great for planning, playful teasing, or “pin this for later.”

Recommendations won’t be overly tilted towards your likes, or your partners likes of course. You’ll still see plenty of things the system is showing you outside of your interests. This means that you’ll both be discovering potential new things you might be into, as well as giving both of you plausible deniability: “oh I never liked that stuff, it was your algorithm trying something new.”

Write Your Own (Anonymously), Then “Accidentally” Find It

A popular move: write your own Idea, then like it or share it and wait for discovery. Because Ideas are anonymous, you can say, “lol some weirdo on the internet came up with this… kind of hot though?” No awkward preamble. Just a spark you can both point at and play with.

What Kinds of Ideas Will You Find?

Think practical, playful, and permission-aware prompts across:

  • Scene starters & roles: power exchange beats, rituals, rules, rewards (and yes, consequences).
  • Bondage & positions: options for various skill levels and bodies.
  • Toy play: new ways to use familiar toys + fresh pairings to explore.
  • Dirty talk cues: tones, phrases, and frameworks that fit your dynamic.
  • Service & submission: thoughtful ways to serve, be directed, or be adored.

(All framed for consenting adults. You set your limits; Artebu respects them.)

How Couples Use Ideas (Real-World Patterns)

  • The Soft Signal: You like a few ideas privately; your partner’s feed tilts that way. Later they say, “This keeps popping up—want to try it?” You: “If you insist…”
  • The Brainstorm: You’re planning a bigger night. You both open Ideas and save a handful to your shared space. Suddenly “we should” becomes “we will.”
  • The Playful Plant: You write an idea tailored to your dynamic, share it, and act surprised when they “discover” it. (Wink.)

Privacy by Design

  • Anonymous authorship: No names. No comment sections. Just ideas.
  • Private likes: Your likes shape recommendations; they don’t broadcast your identity.
  • Partner-aware personalization: Your quiet signals help your partner see more of what you’re into—without forcing a heavy conversation.

Fast Start: Try Ideas in 3 Steps

  1. Browse: Open the Ideas feed and skim what catches your eye.
  2. Like or share: Like privately to influence both your feeds, or share directly to spark a convo.
  3. Play: Fold a small tip into tonight, or save a full scene idea for later to plan something delicious.

The Community Effect

Every time you like, share, or write an Idea, you’re helping the whole Artebu community have hotter, safer, smarter sex. More creativity in, better recommendations out—for you, your partner, and everyone exploring with care.

Ready to turn sparks into scenes?

Open Ideas, follow your curiosity, and let Artebu do the matchmaking between what excites you and what you try next. Light the fuse.

Ready to do something kinky?

Communicating about your desires has never been this easy.

Available on iOS and Android phones