Orders in Artebu are short, actionable commands you send to your partner. Use them to spark a moment, set the tone for a night, or orchestrate something more elaborate over days or weeks. They’re simple by design, with a few delicious twists that make them perfect for BDSM dynamics.
What makes Orders different
Hide-until-done steps (a.k.a. delicious suspense)
Build anticipation by revealing tasks one at a time. Your partner only sees the next instruction after they complete the current one. It’s ideal for scene setup, playful service, or guiding a submissive through preparation without giving the whole plan away.
Remixable, community-powered
Attach an order to an Idea (our communal library of scenes, prompts, dirty talk, and more) and choose from proven, bite-size sequences that other couples love. Remix them to your tastes, swap steps, change the vibe—make it yours in seconds.
One-tap initiation
From “Come to me now” to a carefully layered checklist with outfits, music, and mood lighting—start the moment with a single tap. Save your favorites and reuse them whenever the mood strikes. Perfect for turning routine tasks into ritual.
Push notifications & live progress
Orders are built for action. Your partner gets an instant push notification when you send an Order, and you’ll see checkmarks roll in as each step is completed. It’s especially great when you’re not in the same place—you can lead from afar and feel the momentum in real time.
Compatible with long-distance play
Spin up a playful sequence during the day and culminate with a phone or video date at night. Schedule an Order to land Friday afternoon. Or keep a multi-day build-up humming, all tracked with gentle nudges and clear progress.
How it works (fast)
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Pick a template (or start blank). Artebu includes ready-made Orders for quick sparks, scene prep, aftercare rituals, and more.
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Customize the steps. Add notes, link to an Idea, choose whether steps are revealed all at once or Hide-until-done.
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Press send. Your partner gets a push notification and a clear to-do list (with hidden surprises if you chose).
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Track their output. Watch progress in real time, nudge if needed, and enjoy the growing anticipation.
Example Orders (steal these and make them yours)
Quick Spark (one-tap)
- “Come to me now.”
- “Bring a glass of water.”
- “Wait by the door and breathe—slow, steady, ready.”
Scene Setup (hide-until-done)
- Tidy the bedside table and dim the lights.
- Lay out your favorite toys and a soft towel.
- Put on the black tee. Phone on do-not-disturb.
- Kneel by the bed and close your eyes. Wait for me.
Slow Burn (scheduled)
- Monday: Start a playlist for Friday night; add three songs that feel dangerous.
- Wednesday: Pack a small “yes-box” of approved items.
- Friday, 7 PM: Shower, hydrate, and text “Ready.”
Attach these to an Idea to help others get it on the same way. Or, make some orders and attach them to an idea and share it with your partner to help them an boss you around in ways you’ll both like.
Built for D/s dynamics (without killing the magic)
- Control & visibility: The dominant can see the whole plan; the submissive sees only what they need, when they need it.
- Reusable rituals: Save favorite Orders to make service, training, or aftercare easy to repeat—and easy to evolve.
- Lightweight prompts: Give generous guidance without forcing a submissive to script their own domination.
Why you’ll love it
- Effortless initiation: No overthinking. Send an Order, set the energy.
- Less planning overhead: Templates and remixes keep you inspired without starting from zero.
- Better follow-through: Push notifications and progress tracking turn fantasies into reality.
- Perfect for LDRs: Lead, respond, and build something intimate—no matter the distance.
Get started in 60 seconds
- Tap Give orders now in Artebu.
- Choose a template (or tap Give new orders).
- Flip on Hide-until-done if you’re building suspense.
- Attach an Idea for instant inspiration.
- Tap Send—and watch the scene come to life.
Artebu Orders: small instructions, big chemistry.