A Dynamic is the heart of how you use Artebu: a shared space where two consenting adults design how they want to play, care, and grow together. Start simple or go deep—it adapts with you.
Roles: turn the dial on power (together)
Pick explicit power-exchange roles—or keep it even if you prefer. When you do choose D/s, Artebu makes it deliciously asymmetric:
- Dom view: more control, richer visibility, and orchestration tools.
- Sub view: a little mystery on purpose—limited visibility to spark anticipation and surprise. You decide what’s hidden, what’s teased, and what’s revealed.
Agreements: your living “we-decided”
Design the bones of your relationship and your play, in one place. Agreements cover the serious and the spicy—consent, safety, logistics, rituals, rules, and roleplay.
- Collaborative: propose, tweak, and approve together. Nothing goes live until everyone signs off.
- Versioned: tastes evolve; your agreements can, too.
- Kickstarters included: thoughtful templates help you begin without blank-page stress.
Examples you might include:
- Check-ins & aftercare rituals
- Soft/firm/hard limits
- Communication rules & safewords
- Scene cadence, date nights, “surprise windows”
- Rewards, consequences, and service protocols
Facets: customize your kink toolkit
Every Dynamic is different. Facets let you add exactly the modules you want—so your space feels like yours. Turn on what fits, ignore what doesn’t.
- Bondage: track favorite ties, positions, and gear; keep notes on comfort and timing.
- Closet & Costumes: plan outfits, wishlists, and looks; tag sizes to make gifting easy.
- Chastity: log lockups, tease days, and release rules (if that’s your thing).
- Exhbitionism: share parts of your dynamic with the world by giving you a sharable link to what you both have been up to
- Photo Vault: a private place for spicy selfies and moodboards you both control.
- Consensual Nonconsent: safely manage scenes where one partner is “taken”
- and more: daily protocols, tasks, and playful reminders. Pick a few. Add more later. Your Dynamic grows as your tastes do.
Why Dynamics work
- Clarity without killing the spark: alignment first, surprise second.
- Less pressure, more play: planning is shared; initiation is easier.
- Consent-forward by design: approvals and limits are built into the flow.
- Adaptable: what you love this month can evolve next month.
How to start (it’s easy)
- Create your dynamic and pick roles (or not—your call).
- Add agreements from templates or write your own; approve together.
- Plug in facets that fit how you play. Then… go make some magic.
A few friendly FAQs
Do we have to do D/s to use a Dynamic? Nope. Dynamics shine with power exchange, but they’re great for any couple who likes clarity and collaboration.
Will this make things too regimented? Quite the opposite. Structure holds the container so you can be more spontaneous inside it—especially with sub-side surprises.
Can we change things later? Please do. Agreements, roles, and facets are all adjustable as your desires evolve.