The easiest way to bring your partner into your fantasies

A discreet app for couples to share and explore BDSM fantasies together

Available on iOS and Android phones

Tools for your bedroom, whatever you're into

Discover our growing suite of tools you can use for brainstorming, planning out, coordinating, and then having better sex.

Agreement editor with consent prompts and toggles

Keep boundaries, limits, and consent clear

Stay on the same page for important safety considerations as well as any more fun parts of your sexual "dynamic"

  • Propose and accept agreements to and from your partner, and see them all in one place
  • Formally set up power exchange
  • Browse our list of recommended agreements to find new ideas for your dynamic
Explore customizing your dynamic
Ideas board with colorful cards and filters

Plan the perfect scene for your next "date night"

Being the dominant partner comes with a lot of pressure to figure out what to do, let Artebu help!

  • Browse ideas for scenes, techniques, and role play shared by our community
  • By "liking" ideas our system can start to make recommendations specific to your tastes
  • If you find an idea particularly interesting, you can directly share it with your partner within the app
Read more about planning scenes
Orders dashboard showcasing stacked rituals

Order submissives around with the tap of a button

Create and give orders to your partner, then track their progress completing them in real time with push notifications

  • Great for initiating sex, ordering your submissive into position, or just getting some chores done
  • Tasks can optionally be hidden until all previous tasks have been completed, perfect for building suspense
  • Write your own orders, or reuse/remix community shared orders if you need inspiration
Explore sending and receiving orders
Chastity timer incrementing the time upwards

Chastity tracking

For couples practicing chastity you can use our tracking tools to always know exactly how long a lockup has lasted, and stay on the same page about when a release might happen

  • Push notification alerts on all unlocks
  • View historical stats like longest lockup, % of time spent locked, etc.
  • Custom timeline visualization of all lockups, including teases, ruins, unlocks for hygiene and more
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Where Artebu fits in

Artebu solves a couple different specific problems for couples looking to have better sex

Dominate your partner

Being in charge has a certain thrill, but there is also a tone of work that comes with it. Use Artebu to plan things out, communicate your orders, and keep you and your submissive on the same page.

"Artebu makes it easier to dominantly initiate something with my partner, and I end up being more creative with my plans!"

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Help your partner take charge

Asking your partner to dominate you is a tall order, especially if it doesn't come naturally for them. Help them get in the mindset and come up with ideas by using Artebu together.

"My wife's heart was in the right place, but she always struggled in the moment, feeling awkward and unsure. Artebu gave her the confidence to force me into all sorts of amazing predicaments!"

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Plan elaborate sex

Quickies are great and all, but some situations call for pulling out all the stops. Use Artebu together for a week or two leading up to a big date night and make a memory you both will never forget.

"My husband's 'birthday sex' after we started using Artebu? Let's just say we're definitely using the app for both of our birthdays from now on."

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Ready to do something kinky?

Communicating about your desires has never been this easy.

Available on iOS and Android phones