Kink Lists

Each partner fills out their list privately. Artebu only reveals matching interests, so you can explore together without oversharing or guesswork.

  • Mark what you are interested in.
  • See what kinks overlap.
  • Only matching kinks are revealed.
Venn diagram showing shared and private kink interests
Shared kinks and overlap list interface

Align on your sex life

Kink lists make exploring your sexualities easier. No need to stress over an awkward conversation if you both don't share a kink since only matches are revealed. And finding a new thing to try out is always exciting.

  • Mark interests in our comprehensive BDSM kink list.
  • Artebu shows you where you overlap, letting you plan with more confidence that you'll both be into it.
  • Your matching kinks are also included into the AI Scene Workshop to create personalized BDSM ideas for both of you.

Ready to do something kinky?

Communicating about your desires has never been this easy.

Available on iPhones and Android phones