help for moving your dynamic forward

Assistant Dom

Assistant Dom uses what Artebu knows about both partners' desires, limits, and real-world context to help turn fantasies into concrete next steps.

Assistant Dom hub inside Artebu
Assistant Dom core knowledge screen in Artebu

It learns what you both want and what can actually happen

Before it suggests anything, the assistant talks with both partners about experience, desires, limits, gear, and real-world constraints.

  • Both partners can chat with the assistant directly and update its core knowledge over time.
  • Kink lists, facet data, outfits, and gear give the assistant more context automatically.
  • Private desires can stay private. The assistant uses them as context without disclosing them directly to your partner.
Act of submission screen inside Assistant Dom

Let submissives request Acts of Submission

When a submissive wants direction, they can ask for an Act of Submission. The assistant creates a task based on the dynamic and the dominant's desires, so the dominant gets the benefit without having to plan every moment.

  • Tasks are designed so the dominant can take part if they want, but they don't have to.
  • Each act has a deadline. When it passes, the dominant can review the task, decide whether it was completed, and respond accordingly.
  • Acts can include sex acts, service tasks, degradation, rituals, or anything else that fits within your dynamic.
Assistant Dom training regimen goal detail sheet

Shape your submissive with a Training Regimen

For lifestyle play, the dominant can launch a regimen around three goals. The assistant keeps the submissive focused on those goals and adapts as both partners report how it is going.

  • Both partners can check in with the assistant throughout the regimen.
  • Acts of Submission during a regimen are tied to the chosen goals.
  • The assistant tracks and grades the submissive's progress over time.
  • When the dominant ends the regimen, the assistant gives a final score and recommends a reward or punishment based on performance.

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