Artebu gives couples a shared truth about their sex life—without spreadsheets, guesswork, or “wait, when was our last time?” texts. Track sex, orgasms, and the agreements you play by. Charts and graphs show up automatically. You both keep the same, honest record.
Why track sex and orgasms together
- A shared source of truth: Both partners see the same history—what happened, how long it lasted, who finished, and how it felt.
- Automatic insight: Rolling charts show streaks, orgasm counts, and how often you hit the goals you set for yourselves.
- Aligned dynamics: Agreements about frequency, duration, orgasm totals, or types of sex sit next to the data, so consent and expectations stay clear.
Automatic charts, zero busywork
Artebu turns quick logs into dashboards:
- Timeline + stats: Every session shows start/stop times, who initiated, duration, and orgasm details (per person).
- Trend graphs: Rolling averages for “sex per week,” “orgasms per partner,” and “longest streak without sex or orgasm” update instantly.
- Context in one place: Tag sessions with vibes (soft, rough, service, quickie), protection used, and notes—so you remember what worked.
- Receipts for agreements: Check in seconds whether you’re hitting the cadence you promised each other.
Agreements you can preload or customize
The Sex & Orgasm facet comes with premade agreements, and you can build your own. Set goals like:
- Simple frequency: “2–3 sessions each week,” “one longer session over 25 minutes.”
- Orgasm ratios: “Two orgasms for her for every one for him,” or flip it so the dominant finishes more often.
- Specific acts: “Three blowjobs per week,” “at least one ruined orgasm on Saturday,” “one night with no orgasm allowed.”
- Vibe & duration: “Minimum 15-minute warmup,” “one kink-focused session weekly,” “one playful quickie allowed.”
- Cooldowns: “At least 12 hours between orgasms,” “edge three times before any finish.”
Both partners approve agreements. Artebu tracks adherence automatically, surfaces nudges, and keeps those rules visible so they enhance the vibe instead of killing it.
Sample agreements to steal
- “Two-for-one orgasms.” One partner gets two orgasms for every one the other gets; the chart keeps the ratio honest.
- “BJ cadence.” Three blowjobs a week, one of them on a weekday morning. Log them so the streak shows up.
- “One long, two quick.” One session over 25 minutes and two quickies; notes capture what made the long one great.
- “Denied till the weekend.” No orgasms until Saturday; ruined orgasms allowed midweek; every denial shows in the graph.
Logging is quick (and reliable)
- One-tap templates: Start from “quickie,” “full scene,” or “date night” templates to prefill duration and vibe.
- Orgasm tracking per person: Add who finished, who was denied, and whether it was full, ruined, or edging-only.
- Voice + reminders: Optional prompts remind you to log after a session; add a quick note or photo so you remember what hit just right.
- Exportable history: Keep copies for your own records or just to brag about the streak you built together.
How power dynamics benefit
- For dominants: Proof you’re following through; easy to set “tonight you get nothing” or “tonight is all you.”
- For submissives: Clear goals mean less second-guessing; the log catches your wins (or delicious denials) and keeps aftercare honest.
- For switches: Toggle roles per session and see charts broken down by who led, who followed, and how often you swap.
A one-week rollout plan
- Add the Sex & Orgasm facet to your Dynamic.
- Pick 2–3 agreements from above (or write your own) and approve them together.
- Log your next three sessions—even quickies—with duration and orgasms for each partner.
- Review the chart at the end of the week; tweak agreements, denial rules, or cadence based on what you learn.
You’ll end the week with clean data, honest patterns, and a plan that feels sexy instead of administrative. Artebu keeps the receipts so you can focus on the chemistry.